{"id":414,"date":"2013-04-28T14:26:57","date_gmt":"2013-04-28T12:26:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/parowvallei-oos.co.za\/?p=414"},"modified":"2014-11-25T12:42:32","modified_gmt":"2014-11-25T10:42:32","slug":"is-your-church-stuck-maybe-its-time-to-rock-the-boat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/parowvallei-oos.co.za\/?p=414","title":{"rendered":"IS YOUR CHURCH STUCK? MAYBE ITS TIME TO ROCK THE BOAT!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p align=\"center\"><a title=\"More from Tony Morgan\" href=\"http:\/\/www.churchleaders.com\/author\/TonyMorgan\/\"><br \/>\nby Tony Morgan<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.churchleaders.com\/outreach-missions\/outreach-missions-how-tos\/166911-is-your-church-stuck-maybe-its-time-to-rock-the-boat.html?p=2\">http:\/\/www.churchleaders.com\/outreach-missions\/outreach-missions-how-tos\/166911-is-your-church-stuck-maybe-its-time-to-rock-the-boat.html?p=2<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When churches become inward focused and start making decisions about ministry to keep people rather than reach people, they start to die.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">This article is an excerpt from\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B00BW9SLB8?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=213733&amp;creative=393177&amp;creativeASIN=B00BW9SLB8&amp;linkCode=shr&amp;tag=tonymorgan-20&amp;qid=1364163785&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=stuck+in+a+funk+morgan\" target=\"_self\"><em>Stuck in a Funk: How to Get Your Church Moving Forward<\/em><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">These words from Jason Fried and David Heinemeier Hansson\u2019s book<em>Rework<\/em> keep reverberating in my mind:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When you stick with your current customers come hell or high water, you wind up cutting yourself off from new ones. Your product or service becomes so tailored to your current customers that it stops appealing to fresh blood. And that\u2019s how your company starts to die.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">That\u2019s consistent with one of the key attributes of churches in decline.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When churches become inward focused and start making decisions about ministry to keep people rather than reach people, they also start to die. In Luke 15:4, Jesus said it this way:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">If a man has a hundred sheep and one of them gets lost, what will he do? Won\u2019t he leave the ninety-nine others in the wilderness and go to search for the one that is lost until he finds it?<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Why do you think some churches slip into the mode where they\u2019re so focused on keeping people that they neglect trying to reach people who are outside the faith?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">As I was reading the Bible, I stumbled upon 1 Corinthians 10:33:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I, too, try to please everyone in everything I do. I don\u2019t just do what is best for me; I do what is best for others so that many may be saved.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Fascinating perspective, isn\u2019t it? Typically, we don\u2019t operate like that. We put personal conviction or preferences ahead of what may be best for others. Think about it &#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">It isn\u2019t worship if the music is too loud or too fast or the wrong genre.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">It isn\u2019t discipleship if the content is delivered in a home or online instead of in a classroom.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">It isn\u2019t missions if we help a neighbor who has wealth instead of focusing on people who live in poverty.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The message is good if it calls out the sin of other people, but we\u2019re offended when it\u2019s our sin.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Rather than embracing the ministries that are impacting the most people, we want the church to embrace our personal projects and passions.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">We\u2019re more inclined to give when we can direct how the money is used.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Crazy! You\u2019d think we\u2019d be intentional about living out our faith to do what\u2019s best for others. Instead, we make ministry decisions to try to keep people happy. That\u2019s how we end up with churches full of happy Christians. That\u2019s why churches stop growing. We start doing church for us instead of trying to impact the lives of people outside our walls.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The reality is that if we\u2019re going to reach people outside the church and outside the faith, we\u2019re going to have to be uncomfortable. And, once we figure out what\u2019s best for others today, it\u2019ll be different tomorrow. That will involve change.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">That means we\u2019ll have to get uncomfortable again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Let\u2019s face it. It\u2019s a lot easier doing ministry when our only goal is to keep people happy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Doing what\u2019s best for others makes life and ministry messy. We have to be willing to rock the boat. We have to be willing to watch people who don\u2019t have a \u201c1 Corinthians 10:33\u201d mindset leave the church.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When I stop doing what\u2019s best for me and focus on what\u2019s best for others, though, that\u2019s when real life-change happens. It\u2019s worth making \u201chappy Christians\u201d mad so that many may be saved.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">People who walk through the doors of our church every Sunday may look okay on the outside, but many are dealing with some tough stuff on the inside. Addictions. Marriages collapsing. Kids heading in a wrong direction. Medical challenges. Financial crisis. Lack of purpose.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Let me challenge you with these thoughts:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When you teach on \u201cfelt needs,\u201d you aren\u2019t watering down the message. You are helping people find forgiveness and healing and a new direction for their lives. It\u2019s easy to preach through the Bible. It\u2019s much harder to preach to hurting people who need to understand how the Bible applies to their lives.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When the person sitting beside you is dealing with a marriage crisis that\u2019s leading to a crisis of faith, it makes your preferences of music and volume seem pretty insignificant.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When you neglect the mission field in your neighborhood because of your sole desire to help people across the ocean, I wonder if you\u2019re just choosing the path of least resistance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When you choose to focus on your theological differences at the expense of helping people find healing and hope, could it be that you haven\u2019t spent enough time living out your faith because you\u2019re too busy defending your faith?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">I\u2019ve looked in people\u2019s eyes and heard many stories. They are the real stories of real people experiencing real pain. Let\u2019s not forget why we do what we do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em>This is an excerpt from<\/em> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Stuck-Funk-Church-Forward-ebook\/dp\/B00BW9SLB8\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1366263338&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=stuck+in+a+funk\" target=\"_self\">Stuck in a Funk?: How to Get Your Church Moving Forward<\/a>,\u00a0<em>the new book by Tony Morgan. For his daily insights on leadership and strategy, visit\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/tonymorganlive.com\/\" target=\"_self\">TonyMorganLive.com.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Tony is the Chief Strategic Officer and founder of TonyMorganLive.com. He\u2019s a consultant, leadership coach and writer who helps churches get unstuck and have a bigger impact. He&#8217;s the author of the leadership book Killing Cockroaches and his latest eBooks on leadership and ministry strategies are now available on Kindle.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><a title=\"More from Tony Morgan\" href=\"http:\/\/www.churchleaders.com\/author\/TonyMorgan\/\">More from Tony Morgan<\/a><\/em> <em>or visit Tony at<\/em> <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tonymorganlive.com\/\">www.tonymorganlive.com<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Tony Morgan http:\/\/www.churchleaders.com\/outreach-missions\/outreach-missions-how-tos\/166911-is-your-church-stuck-maybe-its-time-to-rock-the-boat.html?p=2 When churches become inward focused and start making decisions about ministry to keep people rather than reach people, they start to die. This article is an excerpt from\u00a0Stuck in a Funk: How to Get Your Church Moving Forward These words from Jason Fried and David Heinemeier Hansson\u2019s bookRework keep reverberating in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-414","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-artikels"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/parowvallei-oos.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/414","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/parowvallei-oos.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/parowvallei-oos.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/parowvallei-oos.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/parowvallei-oos.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=414"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/parowvallei-oos.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/414\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/parowvallei-oos.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=414"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/parowvallei-oos.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=414"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/parowvallei-oos.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=414"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}